I just turned 27 a month ago, and I’m incredibly grateful to be at this point in life. Not everyone gets the chance to grow older, and that reminder makes me want to appreciate everything even more. So, here are some of the things I’m most grateful for:
Life: I’m deeply thankful to still be here. In 2018, I received a diagnosis that profoundly changed my understanding of mental health, and in 2019, I faced one of the darkest periods of my life. Thankfully, I survived and now appreciate life in ways I couldn’t before. From that point onward, I committed to a path of resilience, with hopes of growing old, surrounded by those I cherish.
Self-Improvement: I’ve faced childhood trauma that shaped my reactions to stress and self-doubt. But I’m working hard on rewiring those habits, learning self-discipline, and cultivating positive self-talk. It’s a lifelong journey, but I’m proud of the progress I’ve made.
Growth: I used to be toxic, lost in self-pity, and without direction. Those were my darkest years, but I’ve worked hard to build a better version of myself. Today, I love and take care of myself, which extends to how I care for others.
Friends: After isolating myself for a long time, I reconnected with old friends in 2020, and now they’re my closest circle and biggest support system. I’m forever grateful for their presence in my life.
My Boyfriend: After leaving a toxic relationship, I took time for myself before finding love again with someone who treats me with the respect and care I deserve. We bring out the best in each other, and I’m so grateful for him.
My Sister: I’m grateful for my sister because she’s the only family I have who shares my bloodline, a connection that makes our bond unique. She’s been there for me through different phases, helping me when I needed support and sharing moments that, while simple, have left lasting memories. Those times remind me of the strength in our connection and the comfort in knowing we have each other in this world.
Mental Health: My childhood was filled with abuse and trauma, but I’ve learnt that my past doesn’t define my future. Though it’s been tough, my mental health is improving, and I’m determined to never go back to those dark times.
Life is far from perfect, but I’m proud of the progress I’ve made and excited for the future I’m building.